Why can’t the woman in Syria adopt the “plethora of tools” the stalker does? What are these tools?

What if people could be private but not anonymous? Would that suffice?

If we extend Tor anonymity to a website marketplace then we can have assasination markets. For maybe $1,000 people could contract their enemies dead. It would be easy to do bc the killer would have zero association thus zero motive. The only way to prove motive would be to track the money — but alas! The money is anonymous just like Tor!

Same goes for child kidnappings. There just becomes a smaller price for evil doing which helps it spread.